If somebody asked you to describe the Christian life in a few words, what would you say? If somebody asked you, “What does God want from us more than anything else?” What would you say? If you said moral devotion, if you said ethical behavior, if you said religious ritual you’d be wrong. The essence of the Christian life describes a relationship characterized by love and affection expressed in a covenant relationship of eternal commitment
The Bible says indicates that, as God’s people we are the object of God’s unfailing love. God made you to love you. He made you to be an object of His love. He wants to have a relationship with you. That means that you are created for having a relationship and, as a result, the most important thing you can know in life is that God loves you. Moreover, the most important thing that you can do in life is to love Him back.
Nothing is more important. If you do this, you will fulfill your primary purpose in life. If you learn to love God and you let God love you, your life has fulfilled its meaning, its purpose. If you miss this part of your life, your life is a failure. Because you have missed the very reason that God created you and put you on earth – to love and be loved.
There is a concept in the Bible that describes expressing love to God —“worship”. We think of worship as a ritual or routine or something you do in a church. No. Worship simply means expressing love to God. Any time you are expressing love to God, you are worshiping whether you are by yourself, in a small group, in a large crowd or wherever. When you express love to God in any way, you are worshiping.
You may have noticed that sometimes, for some people it is hard to say, “I love you.” Sometimes we feel it; we just do not know how to get it out, how to say it. Therefore, we do not know how to express our love to our children, to our wives/husbands, to our friends and neighbors, the people we work with or even to God. It is somewhat difficult. Why does that happen? Why is it sometimes hard to say, “I love you”?
Life Experience: You may have been raised in a very non-expressive home where there was love or maybe there was not and you just did not talk about it that much. You did not frequently say, “I love you.”
Maybe you were taught to stuff your emotions, push them down, and hide your feelings. Maybe you have been hurt in the past and you say, “I don’t want to get hurt again so I’m not going to tell anybody I love them.” Alternatively, maybe you are resentful of hurts in your past so you say, “I don’t want to love God. There are things in my life I don’t like.” However, maybe you just do not know how to express your love to God.